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Pride Month 2023

Why Queer AAPIDA Representation Matters

By David Moore
Sr. Director of Programs, NAAAP
 

During Pride Month, it's crucial to acknowledge the significance of the authentic representation of queer AAPIDA folks in media and society. The term "queer AAPIDA" includes LGBTQ+ individuals who identify as Asian American, Pacific Islander, or Desi American, a diverse group who often face an erasure of their voices and stories. 

Increasing queer API representation can challenge stereotypes and prejudices that marginalize these individuals. Many queer APIs experience homophobia, xenophobia, and racism both within and outside of their communities, causing them to be seen as invisible, exotic, or deviant. We must show the complexity and richness of their lives and cultures and affirm their dignity and humanity. A Where Are We on TV 2022-2023 report from GLAAD reveals a concerning trend: a year-over-year decrease in the representation of LGBTQ API characters in broadcast programming. Out of 101 LGBTQ characters counted in primetime scripted broadcast programming, only six (six percent) are API characters, a decrease of four characters and one percentage point from last year.

Moreover, increasing representation can empower queer AAPIDA individuals and communities to embrace their identities without shame or self-hate. By providing positive role models and support systems, we can show examples of resilience, courage, and pride, encouraging them to celebrate their uniqueness and diversity. 

Finally, queer AAPIDDA representation advocates social justice and change for a discriminating society. LGBTQ+ and anti-Asian legislation disproportionately affect queer AAPIDAs, leading to various forms of discrimination, violence, and oppression. It is crucial to raise awareness of their struggles, mobilize allies and resources and fight for their rights and safety. A report from The Marshall Project shows new FBI data that from 2020 to 2021, reported hate crimes rose by more than 11%. The most significant increases were among Asian Americans, Pacific Islanders, Sikhs, and LGBTQ people. 

As we continue to fight and advocate for queer AAPIDAs' rights and safety, Let's celebrate and support queer AAPIDA representation in all its forms and platforms this Pride Month, not only for queer AAPIDAs themselves but for the greater LGBTQ+ community and society. Authentic representation of queer AAPIDAs can pave the way toward intersectionality and solidarity among marginalized groups, promoting a more inclusive and equitable world. It enriches our understanding of ourselves and others and promotes a more inclusive world.


Raise the Rainbow
A Fabulous Fundraiser for Trans Equality

Let's put NAAAP-KC at the top of Leaderboard.

 

Help celebrate Pride Month with NAAAP and support a great cause! We are launching a month-long fundraising challenge to support the National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE). This nonprofit organization advocates for the rights and well-being of transgender people in the United States. NCTE works to end discrimination, violence, and stigma against transgender people through education, policy change, and community empowerment. 

Despite the important progress we’ve made towards equality, our trans community, and particularly trans people of color communities are still dealing with appalling violence, discrimination, and legislative-attack.  Please continue to advocate and support Trans organizations like NCTE, doing this important work every day. 

NAAAP-KC was one of the first chapters to pilot the NAAAP Pride program and has been one of the program's strongest supporters. Let's continue that tradition and keep NAAAP-KC at the top of the leaderboard as we support the important work of the National Center for Transgender Equality. Show your support by donating today!

To participate in the NAAAP chapter challenge simply donate using the button below. After you receive a donation receipt confirmation forward it to [email protected]. Let us know your name and which chapter you are donating in the name of to get chapter acknowledgment. NAAAP Pride will track the progress of each noted chapter and post a weekly leaderboard on our socials. The challenge will end on June 30th at 11:59 pm ET. 

 

Donate Directly to NCTE

All donations will go directly to NCTE and are tax-deductible. 

 

 

 

 

NAAAP NATIONAL EVENTS

Instagram Live Event with NAAAP Pride

Wednesday, June 7    8:30pm ET / 5:30pm PT

 

Join NAAAP Pride for a casual "fireside" chat as current NAAAP Pride team members will share what Pride month means to them and some favorite Pride celebration stories. BYOB and curl up with us on an IG Live virtual event hosted from our @naaappride Instagram channel. No registration required, just jump in on IG and feel free to post questions and "like."

 

Follow @NAAAPPride

https://www.instagram.com/naaappride/


 

Pride and Prejudice:
Addressing Anti-Trans Behavior and Violence
 

Wednesday, June 14    7pm ET / 4pm PT

A panelist discussion about harmful Anti-Trans legislation and addressing the connection between Anti-Asian and Anti-Trans behaviors. 



 

 

Calling in all allies and potential ally communities for a crucial conversation about how to advocate for the Trans community and combat anti-Trans conduct. Join us for an educational panel event hosted by NAAAP Pride, where we'll explore ways to support Trans rights and discuss the damage caused by current anti-Trans legislation. We'll also examine the connections between anti-Trans behavior and anti-Asian sentiments. Don't miss this opportunity to listen and learn from API LGBTQ+ professionals with years of experience in the field.

Join NAAAP Pride Interim Director, Noelle Blanco in a discussion with educator, author, and advocate Schuyler Bailar, Justin Unga from the Human Rights Campaign, and Alex Del Rosario with the National Center for Transgender Equality.

 

MORE INFO & EVENT REGISTRATION


 

TRANSformation: A Community Gathering
and Celebration of Q Voices

More Info to Come



 

 

Join a supportive discussion and community gathering of individuals from crying intersectionalities. We will be sharing stories, having Pride month recap discussions, and maintaining a welcoming and supportive space while having opportunities for casual social interactions that will be integrated with more structured discussions.

 

Date/Time: TBD

LOCAL NAAAP-KC EVENTS

Walk with Pride: Join NAAAP-KC in the
Kansas City Pride Parade

Saturday, June 10    Meet at 10:30 am in Westport

 

 

 

Hey, hey, everyone! 🌈 We couldn't be more stoked to announce that we'll be strutting our stuff in the Kansas City Pride Parade on June 10, and we need YOU there with us! It will be an absolute BLAST of vibrant colors and positive vibes as we celebrate our unique and gorgeous community. Let's show our love and support for each other and maybe even spark some new friendships along the way. If you are feeling the hype like we are, please sign up and join us. Don't miss out on this unforgettable experience! 💕 We'll meet at 10:30 am in Westport. The Parade ends at Theis Park across from Nelson Atkins Museum. 

 

Register Here

Queer Coffee: A Social Gathering
for the Phenomenally Fabulous

Thursday, June 22    6 pm - 8pm CDT

Hey, fabulous folks! 🌈☕ Are you ready to celebrate Pride month with some queer coffee and amazing company? Join us for Queer Coffee: A Social Gathering for the Phenomenally Fabulous at Cafe Cà Phê on June 22nd from 6 to 8 pm. This is a casual and inclusive event for API queer folks and allies to connect, share stories, and have fun. Cafe Cà Phê is a cozy and queer-friendly spot that serves delicious Vietnamese coffee and snacks. Don’t miss this opportunity to meet new friends, network with other queer professionals and allies, and celebrate your fabulousness. 💖

 

Seating is Limited.

RSVP now and spread the word.

We can’t wait to see you there! 😍
 

RSVP

 

LOCAL COMMUNITY PROFILES

Hao Quach
Pride Month - Community Profile
 

What do you do professionally? 
Professionally, I am an audit supervisor responsible for the oversight and management of the third-party audit function within my organization. My primary responsibility entails ensuring that our third-party partners conduct their business efficiently, effectively, and in adherence to established standards and best practices. 

Beyond my role in auditing, my partner and I jointly operate Ginkgo Embroidery. We are an embroidery shop specializing in producing custom embroidered goods in small quantities. From the initial stages of brainstorming original designs to bringing those designs to life, we handle the entire embroidery process. Ginkgo Embroidery is my creative outlet, and I’m thoroughly enjoying the journey and the creative process along the way!
 

As Director of NAAAP-KC Pride, what do you wish to accomplish in terms of representation, empowerment, education, and/or engagement within the Asian American community, LGBTQ+ community, and in Kansas City?  
In terms of representation, my objective is to ensure that the voices, experiences, and unique perspectives of Asian American LGBTQ+ individuals are heard and valued. I will amplify their stories, struggles, and achievements to foster a more inclusive and diverse community. I will help promote visibility through events, media, and partnerships, we can break down stereotypes and increase representation in various aspects of society.

Empowerment is another crucial aspect of my goals. I strive to empower Asian American LGBTQ+ individuals by providing them with resources, support, and opportunities to thrive. Through speakers, workshops, and leadership development initiatives, we can nurture personal and professional growth, helping individuals overcome barriers and achieve their goals.

Education plays a pivotal role in dismantling biases and fostering understanding. My goal is to educate our members, associated individuals, and the broader community about the Asian American LGBTQ+ experience. By organizing workshops, panel discussions, and awareness campaigns, we can promote empathy, challenge stereotypes, and create a more inclusive environment.

Engagement is key to building a strong and united community. I will engage our members, allies, and corporations to help support the Asian American LGBTQ+ community. By fostering partnerships, we can collectively advocate for workplace inclusivity and broader social acceptance. Furthermore, I want to strengthen our ties with local organizations, activists, and leaders to create a network of support and collaboration.

Ultimately, I want to see Asian American LGBTQ+ individuals celebrated and empowered in Kansas City (and everywhere!). By focusing on representation, empowerment, education, and engagement initiatives, we can foster a more inclusive and accepting society that embraces diversity and promotes equality for all.

What does Pride Month mean to you?  
Pride month is a time for celebrating and promoting visibility, acceptance, and equality for the LGBTQ+ community. It is also a time to honor the struggles, triumphs, and diversity, while also acknowledging the ongoing challenges and discrimination we face. 
 

Are there upcoming events/activities in 2023 that you wish to highlight? 
We are going to be in the Kansas City Pride Parade on Saturday, June 10, 2023! We are looking for members/guests to walk in the parade with us so if you’re interested please complete this Google Form and we will be in contact with you! 
 

Is there anything else you wish to share or highlight about Pride Month or NAAAP-KC?
NAAAP KC is growing and I hope more members consider taking a leadership role or participate in a committee! 


 

Umeko Motoyoshi
Pride Month - Community Profile
 

Please share a few details about your heritage and how you prefer to be identified. 
I am a queer, trans, nonbinary mixed-race Asian. I am half-Japanese and half-Norwegian. My pronouns are they/them.

What do you do professionally?
 I am the founder of Umeshiso, a queer Asian-owned and operated business that offers stunning rainbow-colored tasting spoons and a fabulous array of silverware.


Why does representation matter within the Asian American community, LGBTQ+ community, and in Kansas City?
 I founded Umeshiso to empower marginalized people in the coffee industry. I worked in the white male-dominated industry for 11 years and faced constant invalidation, even after becoming a coffee sommelier. I created rainbow-colored coffee tasting spoons to help others feel seen and welcomed. From there, I've expanded our offerings. We now sell silverware of all kinds - including rainbow-colored chopsticks!

I am proud to represent queer and Asian identities wherever I go. I hope that others are affirmed by seeing me embrace my identity.

Growing up in a town where Asians were a minority, I struggled to find role models that looked like me and my family. This made me feel like an outsider and confused about my identity. I didn't have any queer Asian role models to look up to and didn't know what my future could hold.

Thankfully, I now have queer Asian friends who make me feel seen and understood. We support and cheer each other on, finding strength in our shared experiences. In my experience, the Asian community in Kansas City is very supportive and diverse. Witnessing the success of other queer Asians inspires me to pursue my dreams with confidence. I hope to inspire others to feel the same sense of empowerment.

What does Pride Month mean to you?
Pride month honors our queer ancestors and the trans women of color who defended their dignity and humanity at Stonewall. It's a time to celebrate and support queer people and advocate for our safety.

What's a little-known superpower that people may not know about you?
I have a wonderful partner, Julien, whose love makes all things possible. They help me feel strong. We go through everything together, the ups and the downs. They cheer me on no matter what. Although I struggle with anxiety and depression, Julien's belief in me gives me a sense of purpose and hope during difficult times. I am incredibly grateful every day for my partner.
 

What presents a challenge for you personally or professionally that a straight person may not consider?
As a queer Asian person, I encounter challenges due to the intersectionality of my identities. The response to both my LGBTQ+ and Asian identities can lead to discrimination and prejudice, making it tough to find truly safe spaces. Additionally, navigating cultural expectations and family dynamics as a queer Asian person has sometimes felt isolating. However, the Kansas City Asian community has always welcomed me and made me feel accepted.

Please share someone who inspires you as a leader. Why do they inspire you?
Yeonji Hong, my teammate at Umeshiso, is a truly remarkable co-worker and person. Yeonji is exceptionally kind, wildly funny, and boundlessly creative. Her ability to foster a sense of community is truly admirable. She is incredibly welcoming and open, putting others at ease right away. As a member of the Umeshiso team, she is an absolute dynamo and I couldn't imagine working without her. I am grateful to have Yeonji as a co-worker and even more grateful to call her a friend!
 

What else do you wish to share or highlight about Pride Month?
Every person deserves dignity and safety. Unfortunately, this year has seen a surge in anti-LGBTQ bills in state legislatures across the United States, with over 400 introduced since the beginning of the year, especially targeting the transgender community. I encourage straight and cisgender allies to stand up for us, to support us. Despite the challenges we face, we continue to accomplish incredible things. Let's take this opportunity to celebrate and uplift the LGBTQ+ community together.


 

Michelle Bacon
Pride Month - Community Profile
 

Briefly, please share a few details about your heritage 
I was born in Taiwan, adopted as an infant and raised in Independence, MO. My heritage is uniquely Asian American – my dad is white and from KC, and my mom immigrated from Malaysia. I grew up rooted in both of their cultures, while also feeling slightly removed from each.  

What do you do professionally? 
I'm Content Manager at 90.9 The Bridge, where I spotlight local artists and music discovery through digital and on-air programming. My focus is to create and produce content that adds value to our community through music – whether that be through the Sound Minds mental health initiative, our Turning the Tables conversation on gender disparity in music, or frequent local artist features. I'm also a freelance musician who plays drums and bass with several area bands; among them – The Band That Fell To Earth, Frogpond, Heidi Lynne Gluck, and Katy Guillen & The Drive.
 

Why does representation matter within the Asian American community, LGBTQ+ community, and in Kansas City? 
 Representation is absolutely essential! Growing up, there were never any dolls that looked like me, and the few representations of Asian or queer people in pop culture were caricatures. These depictions chipped away at my sense of identity; it was often a lonely place to be. But when society starts to normalize people who look or love like us, it opens up the possibilities of who we feel comfortable being. There is freedom and relief in that notion.

I’m excited to see more of that in Kansas City in recent years. When queer people and people of color start getting a seat at the table, a broader share of the community has a voice, which hopefully leads to systemic change. And at a time where drastic measures are happening against equality on a state level, KC has the opportunity to be a safe Midwestern hub that welcomes and values diversity.
 

What does Pride month mean to you?
I came out about a decade ago, later in life than a lot of my peers, so Pride Month didn't hold much meaning for me at the time. I thought I was just catching up with everyone else, in a sense. But as I've seen the lives of LGBTQ+ folks – particularly those in the trans community – come under attack, I've realized that these heritage celebrations represent much more than waving a few flags. So, now I see Pride Month as a reminder to take action against the institutions trying to disavow identities and eradicate livelihoods. 

What's a little-known superpower that people may not know about you?
I have a Rain Man-like ability to retain birthdays, phone numbers and other useless statistics about people from my past. Unfortunately, that doesn't carry over to most in my present life, but if you ever need to know the birthdays of old classmates or my mom's license plate number in 1998, I got you.
 

What presents a challenge for you personally or professionally that a straight person may not consider?
I've always felt like an "other," so the idea of coming out presented me with a nearly impossible challenge. When you've spent your life being forced into boxes that only represent a tiny fraction of who you are, it seems even more daunting to check off another one. Though I carry a lot of privilege as a queer cis Asian-American woman, I'm aware that others may only see me in a narrow light, which, in certain settings, can pose a threat to my safety. Fortunately, I've found acceptance and support in my own community, but not everyone gets that lucky. 

Please share someone who inspires you as a leader, whether it is in the Asian American community, LGBTQ+ community, Kansas City, pop culture, or the public eye. Why do they inspire you?
Since so many people inspire me locally, I'm going to go with a pop culture icon – Ke Huy Quan, who played Data in The Goonies and most recently, a wildly popular comeback role in Everything Everywhere All At Once. Again, it goes back to representation. I can't tell you how many times I was called Data as a youngster; no one else on the big or small screen looked like me. That narrow view of being Asian American also stuck with Quan, who quit acting because he was relegated to these roles. For him to reemerge in a film like this felt so meaningful to me. He gives a genuinely joyful portrayal of the human experience while redefining what it means to be an Asian American person. 


 

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